#winner of the #30daydeclutterchallenge!!! Liz M!!! #organize #declutter Congrats lady! Please email Kat@thesimplifiedlife.org within 14 days to collect your prize!!
I am so proud and thankful to know all of you wonderful declutterers. Today marks the 30th day of the 30 day challenge. If you'd like to get a gold star, keep decluttering tomorrow and (small business) Saturday. I hope you have a wonderful day today with family and friends.
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Hi there! Are you on board? Ready to lighten your load? Want a chance to win 2 organizing sessions with The Simplified Life and one session with life coach, Elyse Nakajima of World So Wide?
Well, today is the day.
There are two ways to participate. I will be posting on our Facebook page at 9 am each day stating what I've gotten rid of. You just need to add your item as a comment on my post i.e "chipped mug".
Or, if Facebook isn't your thing, then add your comment each day to bottom of this blog post. You will need to follow the prompts to create a Squarespace account to be able to post. If you don't want your full name displayed, just put your last initial.
Ok.....go. Get on it!
My possessions doubled today. I've got a hot mess, and arguably uglier blinds than you have, on my hands. Let's just say I'll be right there with you in the 30 day decluttering challenge.
On the positive side, at least we decided not to move into the 400 sq ft. cottage. I think it would have been a short marriage. <3
As you may have read, we are starting a 30 Day Decluttering Challenge on October 29th.
"But why?", you ask. "Can't you just wave a wand and make things organized?"
Well, the thing is, every single one of us has stuff that we don't use. If you don't, you probably wouldn't have contacted the simplified life. or looked at our Facebook page. You'd probably be blogging about your minimalism while backpacking through Europe with only 38 items to call your own.
And all that stuff we don't use is costing us a lot: time spent digging through it or moving the piles from place to place; money spent storing it, organizing it or buying a new one because we can't find the old one; frustration because we're late for work and can't find the keys or the kids are late to school because they can't find the text book they need that's buried in their room; guilt because we "should" be able to run the house better or maybe because now we're yelling at the kids or our spouse.
You get the idea. Our stuff costs us.
I almost hesitate to say I'm a home organizer, because it's bigger than that. I want you to not just have an organized home, I want you to have a simple, joyful, peaceful home that allows you to recharge and gives you the calm (and energy!) to follow your passions and I firmly believe that too much stuff is hindering that. I don't just want you to organize your piles, I want you to get out from under them. I want you to love everything in your home - to edit your possessions. Does it mean something to you? Does it's quality make it joyful to touch? Why have 20 cheap purses when you could have one nice one that you love, that will last and that makes you feel special? Quality over quantity...that is what decluttering and buying mindfully allows you to have. And freedom. Think about it.
You heard it here first.
Starting on October 29th and continuing until Small Business Saturday on November 29th (aka the day after Black Friday), we will be conducting our first 30 day decluttering challenge!!
So what's in it for you?
A chance to connect with other community members committed to ditching the stuff, as well as a chance to support a local business (...the simplified life.). Accomplishing anything in life seems to come down to the amount of support you have. Please use this as an excuse to make a real change in your environment!
Oh yeah, and one lucky winner will receive two free organizing sessions and one free coaching session to help kick their efforts into high gear. Yeah, that's like $1000 worth of free services. Get on it.
So what do you have to do? Easy peasy. Post in the comments on this post, or on our Facebook page each day with your name and the one item you either tossed or donated i.e. "1 broken mug". Just a couple of words. That's it. Please be honest. Set a reminder on your phone to post each day. You can do it.
Quick Tip: If you need an easy place to unload a few items, check out the San Francisco Parent's of Multiples Club Consignment Sale. You don't need to be there to sell and you'll get 60% of the sale price.
The fine print:
- If you don't live in our service area (SF, the peninsula, San Jose or Lodi), we will substitute the "Virtual Reality" package in place of in person organizing
- You have to post every day
- The winner will be drawn out of a hat on November 29th at 6pm and will be announced in a new blog post
One bag of clothes that don't quite fit, but I can't bear to part with.
And 5 bags for Samaritan House, plus one return to Nordstrom.
Only two weeks before we combine households and it's feeling a lot lighter around here.
So what have you decluttered today?
Sometimes you just need a moment of stillness.
A contentedly munching horse and a soft breeze always helps.
I hope you found a bit of calm today.
I just want to take a moment to thank you.
Thank you for being you.
Thank you for giving me a reason to wake up every morning.
Thank you for giving me a chance to have a calling rather than a career.
Thank you for helping me put food on my table, keep my lights on and my body clothed.
Thank you for showing me your insecurities, your dark corners, your fears and allowing me to share in your journey to become your best self.
I don't think I can adequately express how inspiring you all are to me each and every day.
You haven't just been patrons, you've been friends.
I feel like one of the luckiest people on earth to get to see one of you each and every day.
Be strong and brave and continue on the journey you're on. It's worth it and you're worth it.
If you have something you're thankful for today, leave me a comment below!!!
- Which one of these is not like the other? Group like items together!
- Sort and purge any items that are worn out, expired or otherwise not being used. Your holey undies...they've gotta go.
- Contain like items in attractive bins or baskets (opaque ones will always look neater, but be sure you label them!)
- Assign a home for each container of specific items (i.e. scotch tape) in your house. If an item isn't there, you know you've run out. This eliminates the “I know I have it somewhere” dilemma...and the "Oh man, what am I going to do with 42 rolls of tape?" dilemma.
- Make it a daily habit to put items back in their homes. Seriously...put your toys away!
- Make it a weekly or monthly habit to look through your cabinets, bins, baskets and drawers for items you don't use any longer – then grab them and send them on their merry way out of the house!
When you're done, reward yourself. But, maybe not as much as this cutie did...
In the years since I started consciously downsizing, I've played a game with myself: "what can I get rid of today".
We are now in the semifinals of this game, with a month to go before combining households.
If you want to watch this unfold, stay tuned to the blog.
This would be the contents of 6 boxes of home decor and clothes I've had at my family's shed. An entire Mustang full.
Samaritan House will be getting a sizeable donation.
I have never been accused of being a minimalist. Ever.
We are most likely moving on October 5th. To a 400 sq ft cottage.
I'm terrified and excited at the same time.
So while I have long been preaching a "simplified life", s**t's about to get real.
That would be the contents of under my couches being sorted. Here we go...
Karishma Kara!!! Congrats! I will email you the info tomorrow. And for the rest, we will hopefully do this again soon!
Every Monday I meet with Elyse Nakajima of World So Wide (life coach, great friend, motivator, all around wonderful person). We bonded years ago over being artsy solopreneurs with a passion to help people. Our video chats for the past year have been a bright spot in my week and a source of inspiration both business-wise and personally. We hold each other accountable and keep each other moving forward...never stagnating. However, with an impending wedding, my side of the chats has been mainly personal lately and I was feeling pretty guilty about not coming up with the "next big thing" for The Simplified Life.
The eBook! The seminar! The online class! Migrate the email! Blog Posts! Send out newsletters! Improve my follow-up times to emails and phone calls! Finding a secretary in case I can't improve! Social Media! Marketing! *sigh* My head spins.
Well...I decided to let myself off the hook. A season for all things right? Between running a business, planning a wedding and finding new housing for 2 (if you have an in-law unit in your backyard, give me a call! We'll take it off your hands!), it's the season to be aware of limitations and allow a bit of status quo on the business side as my efforts are focused on the personal side. And time to take a beach day...
So how does that relate to organizing? Well...often successful changes inspire us to make other awesome big changes. Good thing! I hear clients saying they just had a baby and want to get organized. Or they want to get organized right now because the days are longer, yet the kids are home on summer break. Or they got a promotion and now feel like their home needs to reflect their new title. They get started and then feel shame because adding this new project in on top of their commitments is causing everything to suffer. Bad timing! They are already stretched too thin.
So here it is...permission to be a slacker for a bit. I want you to set yourself up for success. Enjoy the new baby. Find your rhythm at work. Wait until the kids are back in school. Do what you have to do to keep the house running, the power turned on and everyone fed. Then let's work together to figure out the best time to start your organizing project.
So relax, pat yourself on the back for keeping things mostly together...and remember that timing can dictate how successful you'll be.
For the record, giving myself permission to slack off a bit freed up some bandwidth and I spontaneously decided to migrate the business email over to Gmail. NO MORE LOST EMAILS!!! HOORAY!!!
SO....that was a long one. If you read all the way down here (yay!) and you'd like to be entered in a giveaway for a one hour coaching session with Elyse, leave a comment below. If you're brave, tell me what's getting in the way of organizing for you. If you're not so brave, just say hi... :) The winner will be drawn at random on Friday.
With energy. With happiness and disappointment. With the desire to do, be and create. To help and to heal. Today was a slow starter...a lingering hangover of tiredness and a bit of melancholy. Finally rolling out of bed brought a delicious cup of coffee. The kind I'm trying to slow down and listen to. Dripping slowly in the Chemex. Promising a refresh and renewal.
Slow down. Stop. Breathe. Go back. Fall back. Way back. Fall into the great unknown and not be afraid. I feel as though I'm at a crossroads and with a fast approaching wedding, I suppose I am. But in a spiritual sense as well. I began my practice of yoga again. At a place appropriately called Being Yoga. Being is something I struggle with. Being. Not doing. Not thinking. Just being. And yet, for the past two weeks, I've been stretching mental and physical muscles not used since my high school devotion to Rodney Yee yoga VHS tapes. And you know what? The (almost daily) panic attacks stopped. There might be something to being.
...is where the horse is. I couldn't figure out why I was so drawn to heading back to Lockeford every couple of weeks, when before, my life's mission was to flee from that place. But when I pulled on my cowboy boots, turned on Kat Country 103.3 and headed towards the barn, it dawned on me. My heart and soul will never be full and happy if there isn't a horse around. Period. I suppose this is one huge "well duh", but I guess I didn't realize what an impact not having Pony around was having on me. Mom rode when she was pregnant with me. Horses are in my DNA. I need them like I need air...my big, goofy, lovey spirit animals.
On my journey of simplicity and peace, this realization was a huge turning point. Horses make my heart and soul sing. Peeling off the layers of stuff in my home and leaving just the things that make me light up a bit and smile when I touch them....that makes my heart sing. Going into someone else's home and helping them uncover what makes them peaceful and joyful....that makes my heart sing too.
So the kids are home and your spare time just took a hit. How do you maximize your time and minimize your stress?
- Google Calendar: If you're not already using it, this is a magic bullet. You can make a calendar for each family member and never miss an important lesson or meeting again. If you want a brief tutorial, send me an email and I'd be happy to walk you through the setup.
- Unstructured Time: Choose a day each week that is unstructured. No lessons, /, or plans of any kind. Give yourself permission to let go for a day, and them permission to make a mess, get dirty and act like kids. You can doze on the couch and hose them off in the backyard at the end of the day.
- House Care: Spread your cleaning tasks throughout the week. If you do a little bit a day, you'll never have to have a big crazy cleaning day. Remember, ABC (Always Be Cleaning)! This could also be the time to splurge on a session or two with a house cleaner, or a maintenance session with your favorite home organizer. :) Just sayin'.
- Watering: Plant and lawn watering time can do double duty as fun play time in the sprinklers for the kids!
- Family time: The San Mateo Fair runs from June 7th - 15th, other free things include hikes at Huddard Park, heading to Moss Beach to see the tide pools, and walking through the many wonderful neighborhoods in San Francisco.
- Outdoor Time: One friend takes her kids outside as much as possible. The benefits are many - your house stays cleaner, they get to play and they are tired out by the end of the day and ready for bed. Head to your local park and let 'em run.
- New Toys: Now that the kids are home more, they have more opportunities to ask for and receive new toys. This is a good time to start teach them "one in, one out". If you explain that old toys will be going to a little kid that needs it, your kids will usually be excited to share!
- Craft Supplies: Stockpile an arsenal of craft supplies, books and games: you're going to hear "I'm bored!", so be prepared.
- Snack Food: You'll also hear "I'm hungry" at least 1,000 times. Popcorn, veggie sticks and ranch, fruit, jello, and anything else you can make ahead (or buy already made from Trader Joe's) can be a sanity saver. The last thing you want to do is be in the kitchen on a gorgeous day.
- Laundry: The kids are going to have more chances to get dirty during the summer, and that equals more laundry. Doing a load a day is an easy way to avoid having to deal with a mountain of dirty clothes on a Saturday, when you'd rather be out playing with them. That said...
- Keeping Clean (or not...): Feel free to give yourself a break (while saving water, and time spent bathing and doing laundry) and let them be a little dirty this summer. Unless they've been playing in a mud puddle, most kids (and their clothes) can stand to go a day between washing and bathing.
If you have any other simple summer solutions, please leave them in the comments section!
There are certain items I find myself recommending over and over again. In fact, I love them so much I use them in my own home and have included the photos below:
Piece of Furniture:
For just about any storage need out there, the Expedit series from IKEA will allow customizable storage solutions in a neat, easy to maintain fashion.
The most often recommended item in terms of storage are Sterilite’s Lapis Storage boxesfound at most Targets. They are inexpensive and perfectly sized for a myriad of tasks from organizing pantries to under bed compartments. The 16 quart size is useful for storing books as its size doesn’t allow it to get to heavy when full. As a rule though, if a bin is going to be in plain site, not hidden in a closet, make sure it’s a solid color. If you can see through it, it will always look messy.
Another favorite is Rubbermaid’s Clever Store line. They have straight sides that allow you to use all of the space. Target carries the green handled ones, but any from that line should be fine.
The best hangers out there are Bed Bath and Beyond’s Heavyweight Hangers. They are $6.99 for 12 and the best thing you can do for your closet is give it matching hangers. Think of how nice the clothes look in stores…that’s mostly due to the matching hangars. Don’t forget your $5 off $15 or 20% off coupons for BB&B. They accept “expired” ones so don’t throw old ones out.
The best hangers for coat closets are the wood ones called BUMERANG (ha ha!) from IKEA. At $3.99 for 8, they won’t break the bank, but will make your coat closet look like a million bucks.
Clients often ask about the slimline hangers that are generally covered in a felt-like material. I find that while, yes, they do allow you to shove more in your closet, your clothes now cannot breath from being so squished and wind up wrinkled.
Closet Organizing Systems:
Honestly, the best thing you can do to organize your closet is pare down what you have in there. So many people want to know what magical system from California Closets they should install, but I personally feel those are just an expensive way to exacerbate the problem of having too much stuff. They give you more drawers and shelves to pile things on, and if you already lean towards being disorganized, that is exactly what you don’t want. A shelf and a hanging rod with a shoe rack for your shoes and some plastic bins on the shelf for miscellaneous items and off season clothing are really all you need. If it doesn’t fit there, it doesn’t fit in your life. If you have a walk in closet sized wardrobe, and only a 5′ wide sliding door closet, it’s time to have a stern conversation with yourself on how much of it you really need. Sure you could squish more in, but our goal here is to simplify.
With Indian Summer firmly here and the holidays quickly approaching, I’m betting you will be having at least one houseguest between now and New Year’s. Heck, you’ll probably BE a houseguest at some point as well. What can you do to make that go more smoothly and not derail your organizing plans? But what do visitors have to do with organizing?
Nothing messes up the fine aesthetic you’ve worked so hard to achieve like Cousin Johnny’s toys scattered in your kitchen; Aunt Linda’s curlers, lotions and potions scattered in your bathroom and dear sweet Uncle Bob’s muddy boots mucking up your entry way.
So what do you do? You make sure, you guessed it, that everything has a home. The trick is to fool your guests into being neat and clean…you don’t actually need to point out that they are messy, just kindly show them the space you made for them. Chances are, they will take the bait.
Much as the empty cabinets and vanities in hotel rooms are there to be filled and make you feel at home, providing a place for each of your visitor’s items will help them feel at home (and help you maintain your organized bliss). Even if you don’t have a spare bedroom and they are couch surfing, chances are there is still a shelf in the bathroom you could clear off, as well as one in the hall closet.
Some of the main considerations are:
A few hangers in a closet for their jackets and ironed shirts
A drawer for unmentionables
A spot in the bottom of a closet for their (now empty) suitcase or bag
An empty drawer or shelf in the bathroom for their toiletries
For bonus points:
Have a spare set of linens and towels that are just for guests…it alleviates the “oh S*** I haven’t had time to do laundry” moments (a bath towel, hand towel and 2 wash cloths plus a set of sheets should do the trick)
A spare pillow (not couch cushion) is also nice (and can be had for $4 at Target)
Fresh flowers and a candle (cliched but homey….think how stoked you’d be to walk into your guest room and see those! Most people seem to love vanilla, steer clear of allergy inducing florals)
Some refreshments and snacks that are just for them, OR a shelf in the fridge/kitchen cabinet if they are going to be staying with you for a while. It will give them a chance to shop for food and not eat all of yours!
If you’re going to be a (GREAT!) houseguest, please keep a few things in mind:
You’re staying in someone’s house, not a hotel..it is not okay to leave your crap everywhere! They are probably struggling to stay organized too.
If you have special dietary restrictions, it’s often best to bring your own food.
You may be a “shoes on” type of person staying with a “shoes off” person. Just keep your shoes off. Even if they tell you it’s ok. Really. They will love you for it.
A small hostess gift (under $10) makes hosts quite happy. Flowers, a candle, a bottle of wine…it doesn’t need to be fancy, and it should preferably be consumable…you don’t want to add to their clutter! When you accidentally track mud into their house, or cause their toilet to overflow, you’ll already have points in the bank and they won’t grumble as much! Promise.
Don’t pack too much. We are all guilty of packing at least 3 pairs of shoes and 5 tops more than we need. Don’t do it. Unless you’re visiting Auntie Elenas’s Chateau in the South of France, there probably won’t be room for your stuff. Just put those alligator sandals back. It’s snowing. You don’t need them.
Having a houseguest (or being one) can be be a blessing or a curse. Make it a blessing. Enjoy the time you spend with them, and if they are doing something that is annoying you and easily remedied, just tell them. Most of our loved ones really don’t annoy us on purpose and would love to be pointed in the right direction.
If you have any ideas to share on how to be an excellent houseguest or how you make your own guests feel welcome, please share them in the comments below! I can’t wait to hear your ideas.
Until next time, stay organized!